ADHD Coaching Hub

You're not broken. Your brain just works differently.

Welcome to Your ADHD Coaching Hub

Tools, strategies, and self-awareness resources designed for how your ADHD brain actually operates.

Your brain doesn't need more disciplineβ€”it needs more dopamine in the right places.

⚑ Quick Dopamine Wins

Start one of these right now to kickstart your focus:

🌍 Weird Places

Answer emails on your kitchen counter. Plan your day on the porch steps. Novelty gives your brain the stimulation it needs.

⏳ Something Disappearing

Light a candle or watch an ice cube melt. Your brain responds faster to what it can see running out.

🎡 Your Soundtrack

One specific sound you only play when focused. Your brain learns to switch on from hearing it.

🍫 Reward First

Sip your favorite drink before starting. Your brain gets dopamine upfront, making it easier to begin.

πŸ‘€ Mild Accountability

"I'll send you a pic in 30 min." Just enough pressure to get you moving.

⚑ Dopamine-Focused Strategies

These work because they address the real issue: ADHD brains need dopamine, not discipline.

🌍 Do Tasks in Weird Places

Why it works: Novelty stimulates your brain just enough to overcome inertia.

How to use it:

  • Answer emails sitting on your kitchen counter
  • Plan your day on the front porch steps
  • Work on a project at a coffee shop
  • Take calls while walking around

Best for: Starting tasks, breaking procrastination, boring work that needs attention

⏳ Use Something That Disappears

Why it works: Your ADHD brain responds faster to what it can see running out.

How to use it:

  • Light a candle and watch it burn down
  • Use an ice cube that melts as you work
  • Set a visual timer with sand or water
  • Watch the seconds tick on a timer

Best for: Time-bounded tasks, urgency without anxiety, making time tangible

🎡 Assign a "Version of You" Soundtrack

Why it works: Your brain builds neural pathways around sensory cues. Over time, the sound triggers focus mode automatically.

How to use it:

  • Pick ONE song or instrumental you only play when working
  • Use it consistently for 2+ weeks
  • After repetition, just hearing it puts you in focus mode
  • Can also use a specific podcast, ambient sound, or lofi beat

Best for: Building automatic focus habits, signaling work mode to your brain

🍫 Reward Yourself First

Why it works: Neurotypical brains feel rewarded after finishing. ADHD brains need the reward upfront to fuel the work.

How to use it:

  • Take a sip of your favorite drink BEFORE you start
  • Eat something you love first (not after)
  • Listen to your favorite song while warming up
  • Your brain gets dopamine upfront, which makes starting easier

Best for: Lowering activation energy, making starting feel good

πŸ‘₯ Create Mild, Slightly Uncomfortable Accountability

Why it works: A tiny bit of social pressure activates your system without overwhelming it.

How to use it:

  • "I'll send you a pic in 30 minutes" (just enough pressure)
  • Tell one person what you're about to do
  • Share your goal in a group chat
  • Use body doubling (work alongside someone)

Best for: Overcoming avoidance, building momentum, making tasks feel real

⏱️ Pomodoro Timer

25:00

Sessions today: 0 | Focus minutes: 0

🌊 Flowtime Technique

Work until you lose focus, no set timer. Log how long you actually lasted, then take a short break.

0:00

Sessions today:

    πŸ“Š 80/20 Rule

    Focus on the vital 20% of efforts driving 80% of your results. Log an effort, then tag it.

    🎯 Vital 20% β€” keep doing

      🧹 Trivial 80% β€” reduce or cut

        🎯 Warren Buffett's 25/5 Rule

        List up to 25 goals, then pick your top 5. Ignore the rest completely, they're what's competing for your attention.

        🌟 Top 5 focus (click a goal below to star it, max 5)

          🚫 Everything else β€” ignore entirely

            πŸ“¦ Task Batching

            Group similar tasks together and work through a batch in one sitting instead of switching contexts.

            ⏳ 2-Minute Rule

            If it takes less than 2 minutes, do it now instead of adding it to a list.

            Done today: 0

            🐸 Eat the Frog

            Name your most challenging task and do it first, before anything else today.

            ⏹️ Eisenhower Matrix

            Sort today's tasks by urgency and importance.

            βœ… Do

              πŸ—“οΈ Schedule

                πŸ‘€ Delegate

                  πŸ—‘οΈ Delete

                    πŸ“¦ Timeboxing

                    Divide the day into blocks of time and assign each block a task. Do nothing else during that block.

                      5️⃣ 5-Second Rule Launcher

                      Count down from 5 and physically move. This interrupts the freeze before your brain talks you out of it.

                      1️⃣-3️⃣-5️⃣ Task Rule

                      1 big thing, 3 medium, 5 small tasks today. Matches your actual capacity.

                      🧠 Brain Dump

                      Empty your mind. No filter, no judgment.

                      0 thoughts captured

                      ⚑ Energy Check-in

                      Match tasks to your energy level.

                      πŸ“€ Export My Notes

                      Download today's Short List, Long List, Routine List, 1-3-5 Task Rule, Eisenhower Matrix, Timeboxing, Eat the Frog, 2-Minute Rule, Flowtime, 80/20 Rule, 25/5 Rule, Task Batching, Kanban Board, GTD, ABCDE Action List, Daily Brain Dump Sheet, Energy Check-in, Pomodoro sessions, and Brain Dump as a text file, to save or share with your coach.

                      πŸ“ Short List β€” Today

                      High-priority tasks you need to get done today. Clears out each morning.

                        πŸ—‚οΈ Long List β€” Upcoming

                        Long-term projects and tasks that aren't urgent yet. Move one to today when it's time to start on it.

                          πŸ” Routine List β€” Every Day

                          Tasks you do every day, like meds or brushing your teeth. Checkboxes reset each morning; the list itself stays.

                            πŸ“‹ Kanban Board

                            Categorize tasks visually to see progress. Doesn't reset daily, this is for tracking work over days, not just today.

                            πŸ“₯ To-Do

                              βš™οΈ Working On

                                βœ… Completed

                                  πŸ—ƒοΈ Getting Things Done (GTD)

                                  Capture everything, clarify what it actually is, organize it, engage with next actions, and review weekly. Persists across days like an ongoing system.

                                  1. Capture β€” get it out of your head

                                  2 & 3. Clarify & Organize β€” decide what each item is

                                    4. Engage β€” next actions

                                      πŸ“š Reference

                                        5. Reflect β€” weekly review

                                        Last review: Never

                                        πŸ”€ ABCDE Action List

                                        Take one task and walk it through the questions below to work out where it belongs. Doesn't reset daily, this list builds up over time.

                                        1. Would skipping this have a real, meaningful consequence? Yes β†’ A. Act, do first.
                                        2. Would doing this move something forward or add real value? Yes β†’ B. Benefit, do next.
                                        3. Would you still want to do this if you had extra time? Yes β†’ C. Consider, do if time allows.
                                        4. Could someone or something else handle this instead? Yes β†’ D. Delegate, hand it over.
                                        5. Could you stop doing this with no real consequence? Yes β†’ E. Eliminate, let it go.

                                        A β€” Do first

                                          B β€” Do next

                                            C β€” If time

                                              D β€” Hand over

                                                E β€” Let it go

                                                  πŸ—’οΈ Daily Brain Dump Sheet

                                                  A categorized dump for everything buzzing around today. Clears out each morning, separate from the free-write Brain Dump above.

                                                  πŸ“ž To Call

                                                    βœ‰οΈ To Email

                                                      πŸ’¬ To Text

                                                        πŸ—“οΈ To Do Today

                                                          πŸ• Appointments

                                                            ↩️ To Follow Up

                                                              ⏳ To Do Soon

                                                                πŸ“… To Schedule

                                                                  πŸ” To Research

                                                                    πŸ† Today's Wins

                                                                      πŸ›’ To Buy

                                                                        πŸ’­ Thoughts

                                                                        πŸ“š Strategy Cards β€” Curated ADHD Wisdom

                                                                        Practical strategies organized by what they help with.

                                                                        πŸ‘οΈ Make Everything Visible

                                                                        The concept: If something is out of sight, it might be easier to forget.

                                                                        How to apply it:

                                                                        • Use clear bins so you can see what's inside
                                                                        • Try open shelving instead of closed cabinets
                                                                        • Use wall organizers for daily essentials
                                                                        • Keep important items in your line of sight

                                                                        Why it works: Your ADHD brain responds to what it can see. Visibility = remembering.

                                                                        πŸ“ Create a "Landing Zone"

                                                                        The concept: A home for items you haven't decided where to put yet.

                                                                        How to apply it:

                                                                        • Pick one basket or tray for undecided items
                                                                        • Sort through it once a week (not daily)
                                                                        • No pressure to make immediate decisions
                                                                        • Reduces the "where does this go?" paralysis

                                                                        Why it works: Removes decision fatigue in the moment. Bundles decisions for when you have energy.

                                                                        🎯 Think in Small Steps

                                                                        The concept: Big organizing projects feel overwhelming. Tiny, achievable steps feel doable.

                                                                        How to apply it:

                                                                        • Instead of "organize the kitchen," try "clear one counter"
                                                                        • Set 15-minute sprint goals
                                                                        • Celebrate completing small steps
                                                                        • Use the "one step" approach: one shelf, one drawer, one pile

                                                                        Why it works: Tiny steps have low activation energy. They're easier to start and feel like wins.

                                                                        πŸ“’ Use External Reminders

                                                                        The concept: When your brain is juggling a lot, outside reminders help.

                                                                        How to apply it:

                                                                        • Calendar entries for everything (not just events)
                                                                        • Phone alarms for recurring tasks
                                                                        • Sticky notes in places you see daily
                                                                        • Put reminders where you're likely to see them every day

                                                                        Why it works: Outside-the-brain storage frees up mental space. Reminders make things visible.

                                                                        ✨ Ditch the "Perfect" System

                                                                        The concept: Traditional organizing advice may not fit every ADHD brain. Flexible beats flawless.

                                                                        How to apply it:

                                                                        • You don't need a perfect systemβ€”you need one that works for you
                                                                        • Simple systems beat complicated ones
                                                                        • If it's not working, change it (no shame in that)
                                                                        • Good enough is actually good enough

                                                                        Why it works: Your brain works differently. A system designed for your brain will stick.

                                                                        πŸŽͺ Getting Started Strategies

                                                                        5-Second Rule

                                                                        Count 5-4-3-2-1 and physically move. Interrupts the delay loop before your brain talks you out of it.

                                                                        Eat the Frog

                                                                        Do your hardest task first thing. Builds momentum and removes the background dread all day.

                                                                        Sides + Appetizers

                                                                        Pair tasks with background music, podcasts, or white noise to lower the activation energy to start.

                                                                        🎯 Staying Focused Strategies

                                                                        Airplane Mode

                                                                        Cut all alerts and notifications. The ADHD brain is hypersensitive to interruptionsβ€”protect the focus.

                                                                        Body Doubling

                                                                        Work with someone present. They don't need to helpβ€”just being there adds accountability and stimulation.

                                                                        Seesaw System

                                                                        Alternate high-intensity with low-stress tasks. Prevents burnout and keeps dopamine flowing.

                                                                        πŸ“‹ Organization Strategies

                                                                        Calendar Everything

                                                                        Add entries immediately when schedulingβ€”birthdays, med refills, trash night. If it's not in the calendar, it doesn't exist.

                                                                        Task Batching

                                                                        Group similar tasks together. Reduces the switching cost that drains executive function.

                                                                        βš™οΈ Regulation Strategies

                                                                        Cardio First

                                                                        Exercise before tasks requiring sitting. Boosts dopamine and norepinephrineβ€”your brain's natural fuel.

                                                                        Don't Skip Breakfast

                                                                        Protein stabilizes dopamine, focus, and emotional regulation. Your brain crashes without morning fuel.

                                                                        Protect Your Bedtime

                                                                        Sacrificing sleep is like stealing the battery out of your executive function. Tomorrow will be harder.

                                                                        🚫 The "Not Todo" List

                                                                        Identify which tasks to automate, delegate, or eliminate. Your energy is finiteβ€”protect it.

                                                                        Automate

                                                                        Bill pay, email filters, recurring orders, reminders

                                                                        Delegate

                                                                        Tasks others can do as well as you, admin work, errands

                                                                        Eliminate

                                                                        Obligations that don't align with your goals or values

                                                                        🧠 ADHD Strengths

                                                                        ADHD isn't just about struggles. It comes with real strengths.

                                                                        Hyperfocus Creativity Empathy Fast thinking Adaptable Spontaneous Energetic Multi-talented Big-picture thinking Quick learner Never gives up Innovative

                                                                        ⏸️ Why ADHDers Procrastinate

                                                                        Nothing to do with laziness.

                                                                        Overwhelmed by competing priorities

                                                                        Too many things at once = paralysis on which to start.

                                                                        Task feels too mundane or unclear

                                                                        Your brain needs enough stimulation to engage.

                                                                        Avoiding shame or fear of failure

                                                                        Starting means risking not doing it perfectly.

                                                                        Stuck in analysis paralysis

                                                                        Too many decisions = can't move forward.

                                                                        Won't start if it can't be done perfectly

                                                                        Perfectionism disguised as procrastination.

                                                                        😡 Why ADHDers Get Overwhelmed

                                                                        Sensory issues

                                                                        Heightened sensitivity makes environments more taxing.

                                                                        Decision fatigue

                                                                        Every choice costs executive function.

                                                                        People pleasing

                                                                        Saying yes to everything, then drowning.

                                                                        Racing thoughts

                                                                        Too many fast-moving thoughts at once.

                                                                        Sleep & nutrition

                                                                        ADHD directly impacts sleep quality and appetite.

                                                                        Perfectionism

                                                                        Impossible standards create impossible starts.

                                                                        🎭 High-Masking ADHD

                                                                        What people see vs. what's underneath:

                                                                        Visible to others

                                                                        • Reliable
                                                                        • Organized
                                                                        • Driven
                                                                        • Calm
                                                                        • Social
                                                                        • High achiever

                                                                        Hidden inside

                                                                        • Imposter syndrome
                                                                        • Mental exhaustion
                                                                        • Self-criticism
                                                                        • Fear of failure
                                                                        • Internal pressure

                                                                        ❌ Things to Stop Doing

                                                                        ❌ Doomscrolling to "calm down"

                                                                        It spikes overstimulation, not relaxation.

                                                                        ❌ Using alcohol to quiet your brain

                                                                        Worsens anxiety, sleep, and focus.

                                                                        ❌ Skipping breakfast

                                                                        Your dopamine system needs morning fuel.

                                                                        ❌ Ghosting your bedtime

                                                                        Sleep is your executive function battery.

                                                                        πŸ” RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) Assessment

                                                                        Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is an extreme emotional sensitivity to perceived or real rejection, criticism, or disappointment. This assessment helps you understand your experience with RSD.

                                                                        Privacy note: This assessment isn't saved automatically, and nothing here is collected or stored by us. If you check "include my RSD Assessment answers" on the Planning Tools export, your current answers on this page get added to your own downloaded file, nowhere else. This is based on the ADDitude RSD survey.
                                                                        Question 1 of 7

                                                                        1. How quickly does your reaction to an RSD trigger tend to escalate?

                                                                        🧭 Brain Blueprint

                                                                        A tool for organizing scattered thoughts into a clear picture of what actually drives you. Useful when weighing a career move, a course of study, or any major decision where it's hard to see the throughline.

                                                                        Instructions

                                                                        Section A β€” Top ValuesList up to 8 principles that shape your personal and professional decisions and the relationships you keep. Once listed, pick the one that matters most and carry it into "Your Life's Theme."
                                                                        Section B β€” Signature StrengthsList your top 5 character strengths β€” the traits that most consistently define how you operate. A strengths survey (such as the VIA Character Strengths Survey) can help identify these.
                                                                        Section C β€” SuperpowersList your top 5 natural talents β€” the things you're simply better at than most people, without much effort.
                                                                        Section D β€” PassionsList up to 5 things you could do all day. Keep this list tight β€” too many passions spread thin means few of them ever get consistently acted on.
                                                                        Section E β€” Strongest Passions (the overlaps)Look across all four lists for anything that shows up more than once. Those overlaps are usually where your strongest, most sustainable interests live β€” a useful first check before any major decision.

                                                                        Your Brain Blueprint

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                                                                        Concept adapted from the "Brain Blueprint" self-discovery framework popularized by Tracy Otsuka, host of ADHD for Smart Ass Women.